I guarantee that while you are reading this post, there is a couple somewhere fighting about not spending enough time together because of studio time. As a producer, its safe to say that I've stood up every significant other multiple times because I was caught up working at the studio.
I'm sure many of you "studio rats" can agree that when you are in the zone and you allow the music to take over, you just lose track of time. It is not done on purpose primarily; trust me! As I have told all of my past girlfriends, "Nothing will ever come between me and my music, not even you!" Sounds rather harsh, but in my case, it's true.
My experiences have ushered me to the consensus that "studio rats" cannot be in a relationship with someone who doesn't FULLY understand what the industry is about. Even then however, emotion takes over and that understanding automatically disappears. I told my ex one time that "if you want to be around so much, get a sleeping bag and come to the studio with me!" Imagine her response to that!
To the significant others defense, I would say that a balance needs to be made so both parties are satisfied, but it is easier said than done! What I strongly recommend is, continue to be the "studio rat" that you are and when you do see your significant other put on Drake's "A Night Off" and make the best of that time that you do spend together; until the next time that phone calls aren't answered and studio time beats the relationship in a landslide.
-Skyz